If you’ve known me for a long time or even a little while, you know I’m obsessed with goal setting. As a friend of mine once said, my goals have goals. And she’s right. I’m a goal digger.
It’s April 1, so, of course, I’ve set some goals for the new month and the new quarter.
Last month I turned 39 and was so excited to share and get started on my 40 Before List. Then COVID-19 canceled EVERYTHING. Many of the items on my list were travel goals and events I wanted to host and group fitness classes I wanted to attend. To make matters worse, I’m also dealing with a tough health issue that has nothing to Coronavirus but that could also make travel and being in large groups impossible for me this year.
After pouting about this for several days I decided to replace my 40 Before 40 List with a Quarantine Bucket List, a list of things to do while I shelter in place and practice social distancing.
I got this idea from StyleBlueprint, one of the publications I write for. So, be sure to check out the StyleBlueprint Quarantine Bucket List for inspiration for your own list.
Last year I decided that my fitness goal for 2020 would be to walk for exercise every day for 366 consecutive days. So far, I’ve stuck with this despite having a medical procedure in January and outpatient surgery just last week. On February 26, I had surgery that morning and still went for a walk that afternoon.
Am I saying you should follow in my footsteps and walk
around your neighborhood while doped up on Percocet? Of course not! I recognize
and accept that I’m a crazy person. But I am saying you should be deeply
committed to your goals and to your success and not just interested in it.
Though walking every day is a fitness goal, doing so for the past two months has taught me a lot about what it will take to accomplish my writing goals, too.
Today I turn 39. Today I enter the last year of my 30s. Today I begin my 40 Before 40 project!
And this will be my obsession for the next 366 days, so brace yourself!
I love lists and I am completely obsessed with setting and going after goals, so making a list of 40 things to do before I turn 40 is the best gift I could give myself.
I’ll be tracking my progress on my Instagram Stories, so I hope you will follow along @seejavaciawrite.
This year will be 366 days to become the fierce and fabulous woman I want to be in my 40s.
I know that this next year will test my faith and my strength like no year before ever has. But I’m ready.
For reasons I’m not ready to write about publicly, January 2020 was the worst month of my life. So my New Year’s goals were nowhere near front of mind.
Fortunately, I spent most of January in 21 Days of Prayer and Fasting with my church. My faith, my family, and my close friends got me through the things I had to face and I know they will get me through the things to come.
But I want a do-over.
So, 2020 starts for me today. And since February is my birthday month, this month truly will bring the start of a new year.
If January was a dumpster fire of a month for you, too, let’s start over together. Happy New Year!
Here’s what I’m doing to get back on track with my New Year’s goals.