Why women writers should see the film Lady Parts

One in four people with vaginas will experience chronic vulvovaginal pain in their lifetime, yet this is a topic rarely discussed in media or even among friends. We live in a society that even makes saying the word “vagina” taboo! Bonnie Gross, however, is on a mission to change all this.

Bonnie is the writer and producer of Lady Parts, an independent feature film showing on Saturday, August 24 at Sidewalk Film Festival in Birmingham, Alabama.

Lady Parts follows Paige, an aspiring screenwriter living in Los Angeles who’s just days away from securing a writer’s assistant position. But she’s also grappling with severe vaginal pain. She’s suffered broken relationships due to painful sex, and gone to multiple doctors who weren’t able to give her a correct diagnosis. Feed up, Paige sees the top specialist in the city, but the price of the initial appointment forces Paige to call her parents for financial help. Soon, Paige’s sexual health becomes a family affair after she must turn down her dream job and move back in with her parents to have vaginal surgery. But during her recovery, we see Paige not only heal from surgery but learn to advocate for herself in all aspects of her life along the way.

Lady Parts is a story based on Bonnie’s own experience with chronic vulvovaginal. This film is the perfect example of a woman sharing her story in an empowering way and, in turn, helping herself and others to heal.

Nancy Boyd, who directed the film, also struggles with vaginismus. Bonnie says for her and Nancy turning these struggles into a work of art has been “cathartic and beautiful.” This work of art came to be with the help of a majority female-identifying crew including cinematographer Olaa Olabi, editor, Edith Belmont, producer, Meghan Griesbeck, composer, Hollie Buhagiar, and lead actress Valentina Tammaro.

We had a chat with Bonnie and Nancy about the film, which premiered at the Florida Film Festival and snagged the Audience Choice for Best Narrative Feature and the Special Jury Award for Screenwriting.

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The Olympics and the Power of Journaling

Today the world said “au revoir” to the 2024 Summer Olympic Games in Paris. (That is until the Paralympics begin on August 28.)

Being the word nerd that I am, I not only celebrated the medals Team USA snagged in sports like basketball, track and field, gymnastics, and swimming, but I was also giddy that journaling was getting time to shine too!

Several Olympians shared before and during the games that journaling is part of their strategy for success.

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Member of the Month: Margaret Smith Marston

I can’t remember when or how I first met Margaret Smith Marston but I do remember that we reconnected after she attended an in-person journaling workshop I hosted a while back. Since then, she’s been one of the most active members of the See Jane Write Collective, showing up on Zoom for our weekly write-ins and monthly critique sessions not only to get help with her own projects but to be a source of encouragement for other members too.

We’re celebrating Margaret this month because this month she’s making one of her writing dreams come true. Margaret’s first children’s book Eureka, Paprika is set to be released on Tuesday, August 13, and is available for pre-order now.

Hand illustrated by Margaret’s cousin Susanne St. Clair Hebden, Eureka, Paprika is a touching tale that brings kitchen spices to life to teach children the importance of including others. Determined to bring this book baby into the world, Margaret signed up for my 1-on-1 coaching program for additional guidance and I’m so excited her book launch is finally here. Read on to learn more about Margaret and her labor of love.

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In My Poetry Era

Once upon a time, I was a poet.

As a teenager and in my 20s I wrote and read poetry nearly every single day. In graduate school, I taught poetry too. I performed spoken word at venues across the Bay Area.I saw poetry in everything from a sunset to the run in the pantyhose of a woman walking by.

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